Behind the Smile, the story of Lek, a bargirl in Pattaya

The Story of Lek, a Bar Girl in Pattaya
'Daddy's Hobby'

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'Behind The Smile'

~ The Story of Lek, a Thai Bar Girl in Pattaya, Thailand ~

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by Owen Jones

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By Jack Corbett on January 28, 2014
4.0 out of 5.0 Stars.
Format: Kindle Edition Amazon Verified Purchase
I really enjoyed “Behind the Smile” because I kept putting myself in the shoes of Craig, an Englishman who falls in love, then marries Lek, before finally settling down with her upcountry in Thailand’s hinterlands for a change of life that is totally out of step with the fast paced out of control lifestyle he had been experiencing in Pattaya.
From my own personal experiences as an expat who’s been living in Pattaya for the past eight years, I can relate to the huge cultural differences between a Westerner and a Thai woman he falls in love with and how extremely difficult it is to remain together.
Owen’s description of Craig’s first encounters in the village with Lek’s family are very real, yet in some ways different from my own. Ironically I was reading this episode while finishing “Behind the Smile” while my Thai girlfriend and I were visiting her family in a village that I’m sure is practically identical to the one Owen describes.
But I found the bar episodes occurring in Pattaya even more interesting. Most occur on Sois 7 and 8 which used to be one of my main stomping grounds where I had found many women who went back with me to my room, and later on to the condo I ended up buying.
But it is later on in the book that I can especially relate to Craig who finds himself to be increasingly taken for granted by Lek which drives him into the arms of other women, literally under Lek’s nose. For those who have not spent a lot of time here in Pattaya, Owen’s descriptions of Craig’s indiscretions are simply unbelievable. Normal people simply do not behave the way Craig misbehaves in the bars.
Yet by my standards, speaking as a Pattaya expat such behavior is normal here because Pattaya is simply off the charts when it comes to any sense of normalcy.
Ultimately Craig is drawn back to rural Thailand, where the people are better, the traffic far less frenetic, the air is so much cleaner and where he finally gives up the depraved habits he’s acquired while trying to adapt to the huge cultural differences he’s had to contend with.
For many such a course remains the sensible one–there are far more Westerners living up country than most people realize. Perhaps it steers them away from a self destructive oblivion they would surely find if they remained here where the party never ends.




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